My generation married soon after college. We gave dinner parties, the table set with wedding china and sterling silver, if we had it. Dinner forks, salad forks, seafood forks.
We scrimped to pay for pricey ingredients. Laborious menus required untold hours of kitchen work; each course was meticulously plated with fancy garnishes. Afterward, we were pooped.
My grown daughters and their friends take a far more user-friendly approach to home entertaining. Sharing the work, the host provides the protein, a simple meat main dish such as roast chicken or grilled steaks. A self-serve bar is set to provide guests with choices of wine, water, beer or a pitcher-made cocktail (Sangria is a favorite).
Guests bring the starters, side dishes and dessert. Unlike an old-fashioned potluck, the menu is discussed and dishes that complement one another are agreed upon. Special dietary needs are hashed out. And because the dishes are passed family-style at the table, it’s agreed that they can’t be overly fussy.
Chef Chris Santos’ book “Share: Delicious and Surprising Recipes to Pass Around Your Table” (Grand Central Life & Style, $40) celebrates the theme of casual entertaining served at a communal table. Santos, restaurateur and judge on the Food Network’s “Chopped,” provides over 100 big-platter recipes that are creative twists on…
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